As your nurse, there are a lot of things we know about you that you may not even realize we know about you. But we do. And that's just your history.
Sometimes (actually a lot of times) we also know your future.
We're just not legally allowed to tell you.
For example, last night at work I had admitted this really nice guy. Middle aged guy. No significant past medical history. Admitted for a UTI (Urinary Tract infection). In the ER he was complaining of some constant pain in the abdomen, they ran a CT scan to find out why, pretty common practice when someone complains of pain.
So I got to know this guy when he came to my floor. Nice, retired, family at home, typical.
Then in the midst of running around at my nurses station, I saw his CT scan report come up.
Now, 92% of the time, I'd say thE CT reports I see are all normal with minor anatomical differences. Doctors just order the scan to cover their license, pretty much. So I wasn't expecting much from the report.
But I found the worst, what we hate to find. Bad, bad news. Not definite bit probable malignant cancer, aggressive. I stood there reading the report, just steps away from this patients room, processing this information. The patient doesn't even know yet, that kept running through my head.
How could I go back in the room and keep my same happy face? I thought back to what I had said earlier, he told me about his abdominal pain and I said "well hopefully the CT scan will give us some answers".... I guess there's just no way to prepare patients for the worst answers.
He never asked me what the CT scan said, and even If he did, we're supposed to play dumb and act like we haven't seen any results yet.
The ridiculous part is that this guys admitting diagnosis is a urinary tract infection, something we can easily fix with an antibiotic, and he will be leaving with cancer. What if we had never run the CT? What if he never came to the hospital?
The sad part is, I have off for a couple days and most likely won't get to see the clinical progression of this patients journey, emotionally and physically, but we as nurses, know what's in store for you depending on what road you choose and its never a pretty road with cancer.
So, it's hard. It's hard to pretend like you don't know information that will soon change your patients life. I think that has got to be one of the hardest parts of being a doctor, telling people they have cancer. I can't even imagine.
:-(
Anyway, sorry for the extreme lack of posts. I have a lot stored in my head, life has just been over the top busy...
I'll write soon, with love---
-WNB
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10 + Years in Nursing In Medical Surgical, Women's Health, Telemetry and Informatics.
1 comment:
Thank you. You're right; cancer is just about the ugliest road in town. But nurses like you make the ride a whole lot more bearable.
My husband has cancer. He's young, only 44 and lives a healty lifestyle. It's one of those freak things. Whenever he's in the hospital I stay with him, "sleeping" (yeah, right) in the chair next to his bed. I watch everything the nurses do and always wonder what they're thinking. Are they really as detached on the inside as they seem on the outside? You answered my question.
Thank you for what you're doing- not just in the hospital, but here, through your blog.
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